EXPRESSING LOVE A lot of learned people advise us, “If you Love someone, you must tell them before it is too late”. “If you love your parents, your spouse, your children – tell them that you love them before it is too late” IS THAT REALLY SO? DO YOU REALLY NEED TO TELL THEM, “THAT, YOU LOVE THEM.” I DON’T THINK SO . Few days back I received a clipping on WhatsApp. It was about Expressing Love. The Speaker was narrating following incident from his own life: Quote: “My Father was a very tough guy. Never spoke much. Whenever you spoke to him his reply would be in monosyllable – Loud and Snarling type. This is how he behaved even when I met him after a gap of a month or two. I would be enthusiastic and would be expecting a pleasant conversation. But a simple question like, “how are you OR how is Mom” will generate a loud & snarling monosyllable reply “GOOD.” That’s all. In fact it would be so discouraging that I would be scared to ask any further qu...
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MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE – A CELBRATION FOR LIFE A few years back a survey was conducted by an organisation based in Western world which was reproduced by Readers Digest here in India. Subject was “Courtesy” and criteria was “How often citizens of a country say “Thank you or Sorry” to opposite person. India rated as one of the last in this survey. Subsequently Readers Digest, also carried out the survey on same subject “Courtesy”. However, criteria this time was different. Criteria was “How often the Children staying away from Parents, call back their parents”. India rated on top of the list. Reason? Most of the children, whether staying as nuclear family in same city or different state or different country, responded that they call their mothers daily – at least once in a day with some of them saying they call them 3 to 4 times in a day. Some may argue that Indians are not independent. They depend on their parents throughout their lives. Well, that is not true, else Indians w...
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DONATION OR CHARITY It is often seen that Charitable Organisations and NGOs use Logical Explanation to stir up people’s Emotions to encourage them to do charities. Whereas people who donate money to Places of Worship, for them, it is purely an Emotional Decision. As a result, they sometimes start doubting their own decision. In this article an effort has been made to provide Logical Explanation to the inherent Emotional behaviour of People who Donate money to places of worship. This article is an attempt to highlight the Logical Expression of other side. There is no intention to encourage people to change their minds and decisions. In this article, the Term Donation has been used for the offerings that we willingly make to places of Worship like: Temples, Gurudwaras, Masjids & Churches; and the Term Charity has been used for the offerings that we make to Charitable Institutions or NGOs or to Individuals. Charities and Donations during the perio...